Why am I on a date at a gay bar?!

I met “gay bar guy” online. He had an interesting picture with all of these snakes coiled up. We chatted very briefly through emails and decided to meet. It was a Saturday night and the place was full of couples and groups of people when I walked in. I ordered a drink and snagged a booth that had just opened up. In came “gay bar guy” he looked around for a bit before approaching me and asking if I was Jenny. I smiled and said hello. He grabbed a drink and came back to the booth. Our conversation was light and easy flowing. He told me about growing up in North Park and that many of his friends were gay. After a couple of drinks he asked me if I wanted to go over to a bar where h is friend was working. I said sure. He then gave me the disclaimer that his friend was gay and worked at a gay bar.

Always up for an adventure I said yes. The next thing I know I’m in a place called “Flame” it was very exciting, strange, and steamy. Yes, STEAMY. Instead of a fog machine it made steam. So the entire club was steamy. LOL. I’m still laughing about it. His friend the bartender was nice; he made us some drinks and “gay bar guy” and I wondered through the club. There were two bars and I believe three rooms. We first settled into a dark red room for some more conversation. This to me felt like any other bar minus the steam.

For the next round of drinks we headed into the main dancing room. This room was filled with stripper poles, couches, and round beds. We settled on a round bed that was on a pedestal and had a glass wall that let us see into the bar and vice versa. Here is where “gay bar guy” lost my attention. I had never seen so many men; good looking men, dancing. Giving each other lap dances. Kissing. It was all so intriguing to me I couldn’t help, but gawk. The energy in the room was so sexual. Maybe it was the steam. All in all it was a wonderland of site. I’d definitely go back, but not on a date. . .

This is definitely one of those experiences where I look around and think this is not a place I ever thought I’d end up tonight. Chalk one up for “gay bar guy” coming up with a twist on the tried and true drink date.

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Why am I on a date at a gay bar?!